You’re an Amber Heard Supporter: Now What?
If you sided with Amber Heard in Johnny Depp’s recent lawsuit, you’re probably feeling a little lost right now.
All of America seems to be against you, and it can feel like you’re standing alone. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. What should you do now that you’ve made your stance clear? We’ll give you some tips on how to deal with the backlash and how to move forward with your life.
(By the way: thanks for supporting Amber Heard during this difficult time!)
The trial seemed to go on forever. Amber Heard’s side presented copious evidence. Johnny Depp used to be one of your favorite actors, but now you think he is a wife-beater, a drunken, violent monster. And you have great sympathy for Amber Heard.
The jury didn’t agree with you, though. Neither did your dad. Or your wife. Or your mom. Or most of America.
You’re beginning to feel like a lone voice in the wilderness. How can you move forward?
It’s okay to be affected by the news. It’s okay to feel passionately about what happened to Amber Heard. Just remember that at the end of the day, this is a story about two people who are going through a difficult time. Try to be respectful of both sides, even if you don’t agree with them.
Here are some tips for Amber Heard supporters:
-Try not to take the backlash personally. Remember that people are entitled to their own opinions, even if you don’t agree with them.
-Find other people who support Amber Heard. There are plenty of people out there who feel the same way you do. You can find them by searching for #JusticeForAmberHeard on social media, or by joining an online support group.
-Educate yourself and others about domestic violence. One of the best things you can do is to help spread awareness about the issue.
But what should you say to people who disagree with you? People who, in your view, support a violent domestic abuser and hate the victim?
Here are some tips for dealing with people who disagree with you:
-Try to avoid getting into arguments. If you can, politely disengage from the conversation and walk away.
-If you can’t avoid an argument, stay calm and try to stick to the facts. Emotional outbursts will only make things worse.
What if you cannot let it go? When you look at Amber Heard’s sad face, how do you feel? Are you personalizing the conflict? Why do you think this particular news story matters so much to you?
You might be part of something called “stan culture”.
The rise of social media has given rise to a new phenomenon: stan culture. Stan culture is a group of people who are extremely passionate about a particular celebrity or topic. They often go to extreme lengths to defend their favorite stars, and they can be very vocal online.
Is this you? If so, there are a few things you can do to get involved in stan culture in a more positive way:
-Educate yourself about the celebrity or topic you’re passionate about. This will help you make more informed choices about how to support them.
-Be respectful of other people’s opinions. Remember that not everyone is going to feel the way you do.
Is it OK if you still watch Edward Scissorhands and 21 Jump Street?
Yes, it is OK if you still watch Edward Scissorhands and 21 Jump Street. Just because you don’t agree with someone’s personal life choices doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy their work.
It’s fine to be passionate about this issue. Just remember to take care of yourself, too. This can be a difficult and emotionally charged topic, so make sure you’re taking care of your mental health first and foremost.
If you find that you can’t let go of the anger and frustration you’re feeling, it might be helpful to talk to a therapist. A professional can help you work through your feelings and come to terms with what happened.
Remember, you’re not alone in your support for Amber Heard. There are plenty of people out there who feel the same way you do. So don’t give up, and keep fighting for what you believe in. #JusticeForAmberHeard.
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Content by Audere Magazine.
